If I was placing an order this is what I would get.
A sheepskin mitt from Griots or a Sea Sponge from Autogeek (I'm leaning towards the sea sponge lately)
I would get some PoorBoys Super Slick Suds car wash
http://www.prestostore.com/cgi-bin/s...300&recview=11
Get a couple wash buckets from anywhere.
A firemans nozzle from AutoZone.
A couple Montery drying towels
http://www.prestostore.com/cgi-bin/s...9280&pd=133820
A Clay Bar kit from anywhere. Might as well go with
www.ExcelDetail.com or
www.AutoGeek.net
I assume that you don't want to get into a buffer yet, so I'll skip the buffer stuff.
Some PoorBoys polish can be applied by hand for some extra gloss if you want to get your paint super clean (not super necessary, but nice to have)
http://www.prestostore.com/cgi-bin/s...4434&pd=170631
Or Autopia.com sells some good polish. For hand application I'd go with Sonus SFX3.
Some Wax. You can go with Klasse from AutoGeek, or once again with the PoorBoys.
http://www.prestostore.com/cgi-bin/s...4434&pd=170702 I know you probably aren't familiar with their name, but PoorBoys is some great stuff. Serious detailers use their stuff quite often.
P21S is a great wax too, but it's not real durable. You can put it on top of a durable coating like Klasse or PoorBoys EX-P. P21S is at Autopia.com
Or this is a nice wax topper too.
http://www.prestostore.com/cgi-bin/s...4434&pd=220119
Some foam applicators
http://www.prestostore.com/cgi-bin/s...etail&ct=37931
A few polishing towels. These are a great deal
http://www.prestostore.com/cgi-bin/s...29279&pd=97576
A couple of these
http://www.prestostore.com/cgi-bin/s...29279&pd=95550
Then if you don't have some, get some cheap microfiber rags from WalMart for wiping off the engine, wheel wells, tires, exhaust, etc.
NXT Glass cleaner
http://www.autogeek.net/mg13324.html
Quick detail spray
http://www.prestostore.com/cgi-bin/s...4434&pd=170704
303 aerospace protectant. Excel or AutoGeek
303 spot remover
http://autogeek.net/303cleanspot.html
A cheap stiff brush from WalMart for scrubbing carpet stains
A brush for scrubbing tires and wheel wells
http://autogeek.net/oxowhtibrkit.html
Tire Gel, Matte or Gloss
http://www.autogeek.net/entirprotgel.html
http://www.autogeek.net/golclasenhig.html
Eagle One curved Tire Gel applicator from WalMart.
That should do it.