Alright, for the final time, I went into the tranny pan and looked at the solenoid again. Did the test and was happy to see that it didn't actuate! Luckily, I had the foresight to get the
actual #2 solenoid when I was collecting all those #1s (which I thought was #2) back then. Switched it and the shifting is great! I can drive in Normal mode now

. There are some issues though:
If I want to go in reverse, I have to rev to like 3K to get it moving.
When I'm on the freeway cruising constant speed and letting off throttle, I get a slight bucking.
Doesn't catch from a start right away sometimes.
I think I have to fill the right amount of fluid, as I just added two quarts and when I tried to check the level again, fluid was all over the stick so it was hard to get an accurate reading. I haven't drove the car in the last three days because of the snow and ice in Seattle--more is expected

. I'll post an update when the chance comes up.