I just searched this thread for "wiper delay" and found a post by Doctor_J that has been the most useful post I've found in all the time I've owned this car! What helped is someone asked a question about wipers and he posted a link to CamryStuff where they have tons of free PDF manuals, many specifically for the 1990 (my year). I just loaded a bunch of them, and even found in the Electrical section exactly how to test a wiper combination switch with a multimeter.
These manuals are much more helpful and detailed than both my Haynes AND Chilton combined.
Thanks to Doctor_J, I can at least test my switches. But I still want to know if there is a relay or control box somewhere for the wiper delay.
I called the Toyota dealer and the parts guy wasn't sure so he asked one of his techs that has worked at Toyota dealers for over 25 years, who said it's been a long time since he's done a wiper delay on a 87-91 Camry, but if he remembers correctly, the relay/controls are located INSIDE the switch.
I still think there must be something under the dash that controls delay. If anyone knows, it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks again!
Oh, that site mentioned above that I found because of Doctor_J's post is:
http://www.camrystuff.com/