So white90dx is right, you don't absolutely need a tach if all you're doing is setting timing, but it's handy to have to set the base idle and troubleshooting a few other things.
The connectors are also called "male quick disconnect" like these
http://www.autozone.com/autozone/acc...er=296889_0_0_ . Most auto stores like Autozone will have them, a few to a box.
You'll also need a small stretch of wire that fits the connector (making sure the guages match).
Finally, you'll need a wire crimper like this:
to attach the connectors.
A word of caution: when you connect the tach to the IIA plug, make sure that no part of that connection touches ground; i.e. make sure that the spade connectors and the alligator clip are either covered or remain elevated from any metal engine component. If you let them touch, you'll damage the coil.
Good luck.