No aversion to buy something Charlie, just
(a) never did a timing belt change by myself
(b) the "recommended tools" are like $700 all together, not exactly cheaper than a 2h mechanic

(c) we are on travel, car is full anyway, more tools are not exactly fitting well haha
Anyway, an update:
I got more apart now, thanks to your tip, I got the crank pulley bolt out, but how do I remove the pulley now? It doesn't move at all :-(
Also, opening the timing belt cover I saw the timing belt went as well, so have to order one and install it "without help in the form of marks on an old belt" now - the instructions are quite okay, so I think it's possible to do without having a mechanic involved, what would you say? What tools that are not costing 2 arms and 4 legs are really necessary? I don't have a torque wrench, that and something else needed? I don't plan on taking off more pulleys than necessary, what exactly is needed? Which ones can just stay?
Sorry about the questions, but like mentioned, I love doing stuff on my own, just being on travel without tools, makes it "a bit more complicated" lol
Anyway, thanks for your help so far, it helped me to take more apart than before.
Still hope somebody in the area might be able to chimp in, I reckon it's only half an hour to an hour job left after all is apart so far now. Which I probably could even let a mobile mechanic come and do, but then I would not have done it on my own
A wonderful day to everybody, any more help and tips appreciated!!
David