All righty then. Decided since I already had the struts on hand from Auto Zone that I didn't want to mess with returning them and ordering different struts from eBay, etc.
So...
Disconnected the struts from the hood. Disconnected the brackets and removed the bracket/strut assembly. Ground the back off the pin with a Dremel, then drilled it until I could pop the pin out of the bracket. Had to enlarge the hole slightly because the pin for the new strut was a tad bigger than the factory pin. Put everything back together, and voila, no more dropping hood. Now it just about flys open when you lift it.
This was on the LE. Now I have to do the XLE. The XLE hood doesn't drop, but seeing the new struts in action on the LE really highlights how weak the XLE struts are.
Thanks for the info uibalnme. I'd probably still be pondering what to do if you hadn't replied. Instead, I've got everything all stitched up now.
You gotta love this board.