Let me get this strait, the wheel is still securely held on? what I mean by that is that the wheel makes contact with the hub and all of the lugs nuts and it does not wobble at all. If so then it has nothing to do with offset, offset is the position of the hub on the wheel relative to the center of the wheel. What you are encountering is that the holes for the lugs on the wheels are a little bit thicker. assuming that you have no spacers on your hubs then this should not be an issue as long as you have the correct lug nuts (i.e. flat, tapered, round). This website partially explains lug nut types:
http://www.tirerack.com/wheels/tech/...jsp?techid=102
In my experience (I don't know if this applies to all Toyota wheels) the lug nuts used for the stock steelies are just tapered lugs nuts and the lug nuts used for stock alloy rims use a type of washer and the lug nuts them selfs extend into the wheel a little bit. What I mean by this can be seen in the following picture. The portion of the lugnut on the right actually extends into the hole in the wheel and then the washer pushes on the wheel to hold it on.
P.S. This is a McGaurd locking lug nut, so that is why it is perfectly round.
Someone correct me if I'm wrong.