I actually also have the weird ticking noise you described in your OP. Exactly the same except mine comes from the front drivers side wheel area. I tried jacking the front end up and listening with the tires spinning but couldn't hear anything, so it must be when it (the suspension?) is under load.
I got my tires rotated and it was still in the same spot, indicating it wasn't the wheel/tire. I have yet to take it to our mechanic to see if he knows what it is.
As for some of your other questions, some info on throttle body cleaning is in this post (pics from a gen 3 5SFE I believe):
http://www.toyotanation.com/forum/t158097.html
I actually cleaned mine a couple months back with the Sea Foam Deep Creep and it worked really well.
As for headlight bulbs, you could look into getting Silverstars, HIR bulbs or retrofit HID lighting.
This is all in addition to Kep's advice
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1992 Toyota Camry LE 5SFE 4 cyl. 2.2L
A.K.A. "Ron Burgundy"
198,000 mi. (as of February 9th, 2010) and counting