About to get ahold of Mom's '01 V6XLE, it's got some needs... and I need advice! I'm a Mini Cooper S guy, so this'll be the business car (distance driving, office drives). I'm mostly hands-on for maintenance.
Mission statement: Inexpensive, smart, invisible mods, conservative "look", keep 'er on the road forever.
Coupla questions:
Basic: Car's been dealer maintained, dealer oil changes every 2500-3500 mi, all routine stuff done. Comes with OE wheels AND steelies/snows

Anything I need to look out for at ~150kmiles? Any known Gen4 watch-outs other than typical high-mileage-car stuff?
Brakes:
- Needs rotors - assuming TireRack's Brembo rotors ($41) or CryoStop ($51) would be fine, opinions? Don't need crossdrilled...
- Needs brake pads, street or performance street. Satisfied Pro Ceramic at $110ish for 4, or Pro Perform (OEM compound) at $70-ish? Others?
Suspension: Want firmer, not punishing, and no (or minimal) lowering. It's got 150kmile OE struts on it now. Sounds like KYB's my best bet, but any other suggestions? (Yes, read the suspension sticky post, it covers mainly Gen3). Any interchange-ability with other cars (Lexus? Gen3?)
and... what's the best bang-for-the-buck modification route? Any good-to-great aftermarket shops/suppliers?
Thanks!