After many days of trying to work something out with DepoAutoLights.com I decided to say screw it, I'm doing my own retrofit. I did quite a bit of research and then emailed TheRetrofitSource.com and have received more help and faster communication from then than I could have expected from anyone, quite the opposite from Depo Auto Lights. For reference purposes, the final quote I received from Depo Auto Lights was $415 shipped for 3.5 Depo's retrofitted without halos. On top of that, it was going to be another $108 for a plug and play type HID kit to use with the projectors they were going to install. That brings the total cost of that setup to $523.
My cost of materials from The Retrofit Source are as follows:
Pair of FX-R Bi-Xenon Projectors - $165
Pair of Slightly Used Matsushita Gen 3 OEM Ballasts (35w) - $100
Pair of Morimoto 5000K D2S bulbs - $40
Pair of E55-R Bezels/Shrouds - $45
9006 Relay-Wire Harness - $20
Shipping - Free
Total: $370
I also chose to purchase a set of the 3.5 Depo headlights with corners and indicator lights to perform the retrofit on. I bought them from eBay for $189.95 shipped. I am using "Nissan Butyl Sealer" (purchased from MyNismo.com) to seal the headlights back up when I'm done to ensure no condensation finds its way inside. A roll of it was $28.65 shipped. I'd rather spend the money than have them fog up later on.
Total cost of my final retrofit setup: $588.60
Doing my own retrofit is going to cost me about an extra $65, however with that I will have the best performance from the headlights as they are higher quality components and the headlights will look exactly as I would like them to, as I am the one putting them together. This of course does mean that I will have to take the time to do the work myself, however I do think it will be worth it in the end.
TRS (the retrofit source) has already shipped my order and I hope that my Depo's from eBay are on the way as well. I will follow up with pictures of the components once I receive them and of course pictures of the final product. If you guys are lucky I'll even have a few shots of the actual retrofit process.