if you want to track the electrical problems I can send you electrical wiring diagrams and FSM, they should fit more or less.
however if no fuses blow it will be hard to track down. I'd start with circuits that do not work, try find a spot where you still have power and where it ends.
also make sure that car actually uses proper fuses in correct locations and not a 25A fuse in place of a 5A somewhere.
seems like there is a serious short somewhere if replacement ECU got fried so quickly. look for obvious things, maybe wiring loom somewhere is rubbing bare metal and wire insulation is cut open?
for time being I would disconnect all aftermarket extras or anything that can interfere with stock wiring.
multi-meter is your friend.
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P.S.
beautiful car, I like pics in cardomain!

only thing I don't like is your Bosch spark plug wireset