What? I do not 'Get This' at all.
You are MARRIED...correct?
So what is up with the 'My Car' deal?
Yes, my wife considers the newer car her car. She always ends up with the newest car and I take her 'old car'. This is for identification more then ownership.
Where the Camry XLE is actually the main family car that we use when we go on family outings and/or trips. Of course then *I* end up as the main driver too.
Turns out the Camry XLE is the newer car...BUT...we don't really own each of these cars separately. We are MARRIED so we share everything.
I can drive the Camry to work if I want too and I do from time to time to keep the miles down on the older Buick.
OR...just for a change...for a change.
However, mostly I want my wife to have the newer car so the miles stay down on it and also she drives our daughter to school (my wife works right next door to our daughter's school).
So that they have the best protection that the Camry XLE provides.
PLUS...it simply makes HER happy to have the latest gizmos like the Smart Key and the 6 CD changer. (she really loves that CD changer where I love the Sat-Radio)
I never understood why people once they get married they still consider material possessions as their own.
We have always considered everything in the home as OURS. That goes for money as well.
About the only 'thing' that we keep to ourselves is our computers. That is mainly because each computer is set up for our personal tastes and settings.
(but, I do get the latest greatest because I 'appreciate' that so much more being a gamer and all)
Maybe that is why we have been married for almost 25 years.
We have learned to let go and share our shit...material possessions are not
THAT important when you get into the nuts & bolts of a marriage.
I am not accusing anyone...just making an observation.
I just do not see how one can have a real healthy relationship if one cannot give everything that they 'own' to the other one in that relationship.
Once you do that then you will be amazed at how much more 'free' you will feel overall.
So sorry if I sound 'preachy' but I just wanted to share some tips on a long lasting relationship. It was not easy getting to 25 years by any means. However, it did get easier by
learning to share everything.
EDIT: OH...my wife simply LOVES the power of the XLE V6. She thinks it is a effin race car.