This is a bit of a long story so bear with me, 'cause I really need your help! I'll get to the crash in a moment.
I have an 03 LE. After about 150 000km I replaced all four of my OEM struts with KYB GR-2's. The KYB's had a very harsh ride and I would get very frequent flat tires even though my alignments and balancing was perfect.
Basically I hated the KYBs and they caused a lot of problems for me so finally, after only about 30 000km on the KYB's I decided to replace the KYBs and got a used set of 4 Toyota OEM SE struts. They were perfect and I was extremely happy with them.
A little over a month ago I was going straight through a green light on an intersection and some kid made a left turn into my path. The driver's side of my camry was smashed, and the insurance companies ruled that it was his fault.
The kid's insurance company took good care of me so far, gave me a 2009 Altima for a loaner and agreed to pay me $100/day for downtime since I use my car for my business.
Once the body of the car was rebuilt, the repair shop sent the camry in for a wheel alignment but it wouldn't align properly. They determined that the impact had damaged the driver's side strut, and that I would need a new strut. Here's where things get sticky.
The insurance company authorized the repair shop to replace the driver's side strut with an aftermarket one. And guess which one they ordered: KYB!
I called the repair shop and told them that I don't want a KYB strut, I want an OEM SE strut to match the other three on the car.
The insurance company replied by saying that they only authorize OEM parts if the car is less than 4 years old, and since my camry is 6 years old they can only authorize aftermarket parts.
I really don't want three beautiful OEM SE struts on my car with a fourth KYB to ruin it for me & give me flat tires, especially since I paid a lot of money to buy and install the OEM SE struts not that long ago.
Basically what I need for help is some kind of evidence/strong argument to give to the insurance company that the KYB and Toyota SE struts are not the same strut, and that it is not safe/acceptable to use a different strut & that all struts have to be matching.
I know the SE struts have a different firmness (and height?) than the LE/XLE. Is there some kind of argument I can make to them that the car won't be safe or won't drive properly unless they use an OEM SE?
Sorry for the long rant & thanks in advance for any advice!