WOW, I appreciate the plentyful and good replies!
As to sun/monn roof, I have one in my current car but hardly ever use it. Not to mention that I had some problems with leaking.
I4 vs V6, while I do appreciate the smoothness of a V6, I do like the mpg's of the I4. I did drive an I4 last weekend and was pleasently surprised how quiet and also how well it held up in comparison with my current car (domestic V6). Also, since we are planning on getting two that would add about $5,500 to the total bill.
No need for the overpriced nav sys (seems like all of them are that way), I do have a decent garmin already.
Good point about the folding rear seats which is something I use fairly often.
Yeah, the red sounds better and better.
How about the rear bumper protection? Worth getting or just use care and a good wax?
What about the paint sealer (vehicle shield package)? I usually think a good wax is a good investment (turtle wax ICE worked well in the past).