Oky..found the problem after some cursing...
My battery is relocated to the boot, and I have a Jaycar circuit breaker in there. That seems to have shat itself..which cut the electrical system...which caused my little switch to cut the fuel pump to blow...so what was happening was, the EFI fuel pump wasn't working (coz of the switch being stuffed) and it was blowing the EFI fuse. After taking that switch out and running it direct as it was b4...and getting rid of the crappy circuit breaker (which was the cause of the problem in the first place), it start good...and ran. But, it wouldn't idle. Couldn't figure out why unless it blew something else like the IAC or wateva. So i thought id disconnect the battery, press the brake to purge the electrical system and BAM all is good. Start good...runs well..and idles

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So the moral of the story...don't use a CRAPPY circuit breaker to take care of the cars main electrical system...battery is going back up front and im leaving it at that...