Ok, we put on the JP header on Weasel's car today and went on ahead with 2.5" piping to a Magnaflow muffler (originally). It sounded like a weed eater....

so we cut the Magnaflow off and quickly found a generic perforated core cannister exhaust measuring in at 3.5" tip. The muffler is straight through with no silencer. The check engine light came on 5 miles from the shop.
Here are the questions:
1. The CEL came on although we installed an O2 Simulator. There are 4 wires on the sensor behind the catalytic converter: TWO white, ONE black and ONE gray. We called the number on the install sheet and the person told me to "cut the black signal wire" and put the green wire on the sensor side and the purple on the plug side. We did that. Then he said to put the black wire (on the box) to the ground wire which he indicated as gray. We spliced it and wrapped the [now] two grays and one black up. We suspect that the signal wire is different than what the guy said. Which is the signal wire and which is the ground?
2. The exhaust sounds REALLY raspy. I mean weed eater bad. We replaced the Magnaflow with that generic in an attempt to cut it down. And it did... to a degree. There is still ALOT of rasp to it. We are considering putting on a Magnaflow Magnapack tube muffler or some other resonator in the piping. a) Would that be a good solution and to quiet it up a bit? b) Is that the cause of the rasp?