I have Falken Ziex ZE-512s in 205/60R16 size. I put about 33K miles on it so far. Good grip, ride and wear all at a great price. I can probably get another 20K out of them.
These tires didn't seem very quiet at first, but these tires seem quieter now than when they were new. The pavement in this area is pretty coarse, so you may get a quieter ride where you live.
I bought them from here.
http://www.discounttiredirect.com/direct/home.do
I have the older Falken Ziex ZE-326 tires on my Maxima in 205/65R15 size and they are actually even better (quieter) and grip well.
I've had good luck with Bridgestone and Michelin also, but it really comes down to the type of tire you choose.
In the past I've had Michelin XH4 tires. They wore great (I put over 90K miles on them), but the traction was marginal and the ride wasn't that great. I also had Michelin MX4 Rainforce tires. They were great. I drove about 55K miles on them, and I really liked those tires - quiet, rode well, wore well, good grip, rain performance.
You may want to consider something like Michelin Hydroedge Tire for your car.