lol cheap stuff . You name it, it's been done, except of course for the TCM. the car is normally maintained, actually more than usual. Vacuum is great, timing is on the mark, I even changed out the transmission for a japanese one, same symptoms. Motor mounts replaced, all five. All work is done by me so no crackhead mechanic messed it up. I reluctantly took it to the shop because I was stumped, I don't know toyotas that well so I thought there was something I was missing. So i took it to a shop where my pops used to work as a service advisor, they said they'll tell me whats wrong gauranteed or I pay nothing. Sounded good, so they told me it was the Transmission Control Module. So now before I get the car back from the shop and buy the junk TCM, I am trying to read up and find out where it is and plan my approach.
lol one more thing they tried to charge me

$700

for the part and labor