Ummm...it's been a while..three or four months.
Um. Easiest for you to do is to use tester. Find the power cables. Turn ignition to ACC and test them. What you are looking for is the constant power source and the Ignition/ACC wire. Which should be gray or red for toyotas.
Then test those two wires you found with the key out.
Hook the one with the constant source to your memory cable to the stereo. The one that only turns on with the ACC hooks up to the regular power.
or ... do the the easy way and go out to a stereo shop or even best buy or circuit city and buy an adapeter if you haven' t one yet=0)