so $1200-1300 dollars later, here is what I got.
3sge 5 speed transmission $150
Clutch masters lightweight flywheel $400
ACT level 1 clutch $300
2nd gen 4 cyl shifter assembly, shifter linkages, clutch & brake pedal, and clutch master cylinder all for $135
4 cyl instrument cluster with tach $50
New Tokico Slave Cylinder $20
New release bearing $30
TWM short shifter for 90-91 Celica 145
The only things I have not ordered I will be getting are new pedal covers (cause I absolutely hate the stock slippery rubber ones) and a TRD shift knob.
I will be taking the car to the shop on Monday and hopefully it will be back on the road by mid January with the 5 speed swap complete. That 500 mile break in period is gonna really suck though.
Edit: turns out I don't need the release bearing. Comes with most aftermarket clutches.