If you guys are using synthetics like mobil 1, check out this Synthetic Oil Life study.
http://neptune.spacebears.com/cars/stories/mobil1.html
They took a car and ran oil tests every 1,000mi. They ran the same oil (mobil 1) for 18k miles!

They're doing an amsoil test now.
Interesting results and recommendations. They recommend 8k miles between oil changes on cars that don't use oil. I'll be following VW's recommendation of 10k mi oil changes on my vr6, but changing the filter every 5k miles (adds about 1 to 1.5 qt of new oil at that change)
I'll probably do the same for my GF's gen3 camry.
Interesting to note that people doing 3k mile oil changes may be introducing more wear than people who run their oil longer.
"Engine wear actually decreases as oil ages. This has also been substantiated in testing conducted by Ford Motor Co. and ConocoPhillips, and reported in SAE Technical Paper 2003-01-3119. What this means is that compulsive oil changers are actually causing more engine wear than the people who let their engine's oil get some age on it. "
Allan