I have been through a few sets of pads on my Gen 3 and although I don't really 'race' I do drive hard every chance I get (as an example, Dunlog tires with a 50k mile rating only last about 25k for me)
I have used the stock rotors
I have used PowerStop crossdrilled only rotors
I have used PowerSlot slotted only rotors
I have used Raybestos PG Plus
I have used stock pads
I have used Axxis metal master pads
I have user EBC green stuff pads
I have used Akebono ProACT pads
The stock setup was the worst of all.
I will say that the Axxis pads had the hands down best fade resistance. The hotter this pad got, the better it stopped. The downside is that the first few minutes of cold weather driving they didn't work so well

They lasted about 55k miles. I owuld recommend them.
The EBC pads sucked ass all around, what a waste of money. Only lasted 8K miles and didn't stop all that well during that time.
The akebono pads seem nice all the way around. (these are what I am running right now). I would recommend them.
Now for the rotors.
I warped my stock ones in about 30K miles
The powerSTOP crossdrilled rotors did well. Nice stopping power, no noise, good heat recovery. I would recommend, but they are pricey. They lasted 60K miles.
the powerslot Slotted rotors, sucked. I would never buy them again. They warped in 20K miles and did not recover from heat as well as the drilled ones.
I really like the Raybestos PG Plus
http://www.raybestos.com/
I have these on now, so far they have not warped, they are quiet, they recover well from heat. The price is hard to beat.
I got the raybestos rotors and akebono pads from
www.rockauto.com good service resonable shipping for heavy items and a fair price.