hey 88le i got a Q for you and it wouldn't let me mail you/pm you, so sorry to kinda post a long Q, but if you got time to read it i hope you can help me, I really sucked @ physics (took 2 semseters @ university and got a C both times

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I have a bunch of accesory shit going off my optima, basically what i did was a ran a 60 amp fuse on 4G wire to a distribution block, and then ran that 4 gauge back to my amp, and had an 8G going off the distribution, i have a 20/30 amp fuse on that and it goes in my firewall behind a kick panel.
Now connected to that is the power to my interior neons (5A fuse) and exterior neons (5A fuse) and then power to all my gauges (5A fuse), i have more fuses than i need, cuz i like to be more safe than sorry, and neons and leds use such low current that it should not be a big deal anyways, just have them there in case of shorts...
But i read you said that you would really use a relay for fog lights since they usually require a 10/20 amp fuse. First off is a relay kind of like a "self reseting" circuit breaker? Cuz i used to have some fogs just with a 15 amp fuse that when from the distribution block with power and then to a switch... i figured if there was a power surge the fuse would blow and all wire heat/problems would cease... is that crappy logic or wouldn't the relay not really be needed as long as you have a low amp fuse to block stuff... i guess since i have tried to "teach" myself my wiring knowledge through self tests and a some TN/web research, i want to just know for real if it is safe. I have never hooked up a relay and want to undestand why it is important, because it is not something to guess around with when i could really damage my car/self... i just always thought that a fuse stops a wire short/over charge problem sufficently
thanks for reading this is you did, hope i made sense
nate