Welcome Dave
If you're just looking to get some basic in and outs specific to your car, invest in a Haynes manual which you can get off Ebay or your local Pepboys or where ever you Yankees shop.
As for bodykits, do a quick search (link on top right corner) using "bodykit" or other variations (ie skirts, black widow, JT, Evo), a whole bunch of info should pop up. If you have the time, go through some of the old post. Believe me, fuses have shortened for repetative newb questions. Once you've exhausted those tools, holla back and I'm sure the guys would be more than glad to point you in the right direct.
Now, aren't you lucky you caught me on a good day. Peace!