The diagram above is pretty simple compared to others that I've drawn (electronics schematics). I tried to make it as simple as possible. I could of used electronic symbols which would be more confusing.
I can see why it can be confusing, not everyone understands electronics or knows how to read schematics / wiring diagrams.
Anyways I'll try and explain it.
Switch: Use a 2 prong (spst) or 3 prong (spdt) switch.
spst = single pole single throw
spdt = single pole double throw
spdt switches come in 2 styles.
1. on - on
2. on - off - on
Use the on - on style and use the center connection and one of the outer connections.
spst switch:
spdt switch:
1N4001 = 1 amp diode. Diodes only allow current to flow one way. You can think of it as a one way street, where cars (current in case of a diode) are only allowed to go one way.
They also act as rectifiers in power supplies (AC to DC). The diode rectifies (converts) ac to dc.
87, 87a, 86, 85 and 30 = pins/connections on a 12V automotive relay. They come in spst and spdt. You can use either one.
http://www.nteinc.com/relay_web/R51.html
Ground = any metal on the car that has a electrical path to the battery (negative).
Constant +12V = source that always (constant) has +12V. IE: positive post on car battery.
Cathode = ccfl (cold cathode flouresent lighting) tube.
Inverter = power supply for the ccfl tubes. Its a little box with a transformer and other electronic parts inside of it. The inverter steps up the input voltage (+12V) so that it can power the ccfl tubes.
As far as hooking everything up, just follow all the lines in the wiring diagram.