yea, my throttle cable was adjusted on the tighter side of normal so it would downshift with less throttle pressure around town, i put some more slack in and it made no difference. mounts are sound, engine does not rock excessively.
this isnt a 'strange shift point' problem this is a 'falling out of gear and not going back into any gear' problem.
if it ends up being a smoked trans...as in its going to take more than a few solenoids to fix, i'll throw a 5spd in it over the winter and keep it as a spare car and get better at driving stick.