This site might come in handy for you. It has a list of different part numbers which are suitable for both the ST and BT 4A-GE engines:
http://www.filmantravel.com/20vparts_files/
As for the ignition leads, there are quite a few brands who make aftermarket ones for the 4A-GE 20v (such as TopGun, Spitfire, Magnecor, Bosch etc). Although to be honest I wouldn't waste my money. The OEM ones are more than sufficient. I can get you some genuine TRD Japan ones (same diameter as OEM except they're red) but they're not very cheap. Personally, if you are planning to go aftermarket then I'd recommend going for Magnecor.
And as for the spark plugs, yes you can use Denso IK20. Or just stick to NGK BKR6EP11 or Denso 3128