All are in patterns of either 4 or 5 which I assume refers to single pole single throw (SPST) or single pole double throw (SPDT) types, respectively. A reference website,
http://the12volt.com has helped somewhat in this manner but they like to use Bosch relays. If I had a cross-reference to Denso relays, it would be great, but I haven't found it. I haven't gotten much help from Denso, even though they have a regional sales office in my home town. In the meantime, I am trying to trace wires and compare their colors to that in the electrical wiring manual for my car so I can tell which pin is which on the relay.
But I did just find these on the web: