I'll trade problems with the folks that have XRS's that they don't like. I quite like the XRS that I have and I bought it for the 1 part sporty, 2 parts practical, and 1 part fit finish and predicted reliability. I'm happy with the cars mix and its performance...its allot of fun for me to drive and its allot more nimble than the Accord or Intrepid that I've previously driven and faster than both.
The problem I have with the 09 XRS is the seating position. Its mostly my fault ...and the position itself is not all that bad but I have back problems and in retrospect I should have gotten something with a bit more room and something with better back support. But I'm getting me fixed (haha

) so I can fully enjoy the car without too much pain...didn't have this problem until after I got the car so can't win everything.
I understand about not liking your car...when it causes me pain I don't like it so much...but I do quite enjoy the vehicle itself. I'll trade you problems