You may not have to replace the entire oil pan just because the drain plug is cross-threaded. The steel flange inside the oil pan, into which the threads are cut, is harder than the drain plug, which will be stripped during removal. If the pan's threads cannot be cleaned up and restored, there are drain plug repair kits available in the aftermarket.
There are oversized plugs you can buy, rethreading kits with inserts or self-tapping plugs. And there are rubber expanding plugs.
Here's are a couple of articles:
http://www.popularmechanics.com/auto...c/1272161.html
http://www.popularmechanics.com/auto...tml?page=2&c=y
Here is a site showing some oversize plugs, etc.:
http://www.cgenterprises.com/drain_p...ize_repair.htm
Oversize plugs and repair kits should be available at your local auto supply shop.