i found the answer on this website... just like i tought put the fpr before the fuelrail hose. and give it 45psi stable at all times. Weird system but thats how the new toyotas work. from the fuel tank i am going to use first:
. in line fuelscreen {strainer} , external fuel pump, fuel filter, {all of this near the tank..}
Then by the engine bay: FPR .
That shoudl take care of it hopefully.
thanks for the help. And of course i am going to replace the fuel hose with fuelinjection high pressure grade hoses.