With higher wattage lights, don't you have to upgrade the wiring harness to prevent from melting it? And what about the risk to melting the plastic housing?
If you touched the bulb with your hand or got any debris on the bulb, that could explain it's early termination - no?
PM me if you're interested - I still have a set of "unopened" Nokya Arctic White H3's. Stupid as a brush, I bought the wrong one's (twice

) because I trusted a website lookup - not realizing my 2005 fogs are just lowbeam's (9006's).