Heres pix of my job. ill get the schematics up. this is a pretty big undertaking. took me about 3 days. of course my job was very neat and i soldered into the stock harness and basically redid everything. It took a good amount of research with a voltmeter to find the proper places to tap into the switch cluster harness. SOme things seem redundant like 4 relays but because of the way the stock wiring system was designed i had to fit it in with that.
Heres the basics of what I used. The only thing i needed more of was those crimp connectors. For tools, I needed a socket wrench and sockets to take out the airbox and battery for easier access. I needed a screwdriver for some various stuff. Used some screws. A drill for holes for the relay and fusebox mount. Needed a crimp tool of course. Soldering iron. Used a labelmaker as you can see to make the hookups easier. That little relay cluster i put together in my workbench before i put it into the car. I used a good amount of shrink tubing to make it neat. As you can see the small low power reed relays are electrical taped to the larger 30A ones. All connections were either soldered or crimped. For the existing headlight sockets were the bulb plugs into, i cut the wires and took them to my workbench. I had to remove these little rubber insulators out of the back i think. THen i stuck a small screwdriver in the front holes and got the connectors out. I used needle nose to pry open the crimp connectors. I then soldered the radioshack 10 guage wire back onto them and stuck them back into the sockets. Same went for the stock harness. I took out the pins i needed to work with and uncrimped the wires. THen I soldered my own wires back onto them and stuck them back in. THe fuses I used were 30A because they were the lowest amperage fuses i could get for that size fuse block. Those blocks are meant for high power audio amplifiers so they are big. Plus i wanted the ability to add higher power lighting in the future. And also those fuses have a cool LED indicator that lights when it blows. And u might say 30A is a little much for a light, but if something is shorted you can be sure it will blow because current draw will definitely be above 30A. Btw the setup worked flawlessly the first time.
Mostly everything was purchased at radio shack. Here are most of the items i used:
RadioShack:
#275-226 12VDC/30A SPST Automotive Relay - $6.29 x2
#275-233 0.5-Amp SPST Reed Relay at 12VDC - $2.79 x2
#278-568 35-Ft. 10 AWG Automotive Hookup Wire - Red - $13.49
#278-569 35-Ft. 10 AWG Automotive Hookup Wire - Black - $13.49
#278-1221 UL Recognized Hookup Wire 22 AWG - $5.49
#278-1627 6" Heat-Shrink Tubing - $2.39 x2
#270-1133 Gold-Plated Fuses with Indicator - $5.29
#64-3131 Crimp-On Quick Disconnects 22-18 awg - $1.69 x2 or 3
#64-3135 Crimp-On Quick Disconnects 12-10 awg - $1.69 x2 or 3
#64-3120 Crimp-On Insulated Ring Connectors 12-10 awg - $1.69 x2 or 3
Ebay:
Boss Fuse Block ~$16
10 feet 6awg Marine/Auto Power cable from Genuine Cable and Power (this went from the positive battery cable to the fuse block.) ~$8
Crimp-on lug for 6awg cable. (it has a hole for the screw on the positve terminal to fit right through) ~$1
Other:
White nylon wiring ties from home depot previously bought
Streetglow Blue fake H.I.D halogen lamps ~ $20 (one filament later broke just cuz of bad quality)
Tools (mighta forgot some, the usual tools):
Drill
Screwdrivers
Socket wrench and sockets
Needle nose pliers
RaioShack #64-2055 Soldering iron and RadioShack #64-013 0.022" Silver bearing solder
Grand total was around $100, and less without the bulbs I bought.
Stuff i used:
Heres the stock wiring schematic. Its not very comprehensive but it gave me an idea:
Heres the schematic i made:
Notes:

heres the relay setup. both hi and lo lights are grounded to the chassis with those crimp-on ring connectors and a screw.

i constructed this out of the car on my workbench

the heat shrink you see is a 3-way junction of crimp-on ring connectors all connected together by a bolt and nut and heat shrank. this allows the wires from both bulbs to go into one wire into the relay.
basically heres how it goes: 6 awg wire goes from positive battery to fuse block. splits into two 10 awg wires and goes straight to middle connector of lights. a 22 awg wire also branches off the fuse block for switching power to the relays. from the lights, two 10 awg black ground wires come off each light and go to the relays. they are consolidated to one wire for the lo-beams and one wire for the hi-beams with those 3-way connections. hi beams into one relay, lows into the other. that path is then grounded out of the relays to the chassis. before i mentioned the 22 awg wire for relay power. that wire goes to the coil side of each 30a relay and then from there goes through the switched side of the low power reed relays. it them comes out of there and goes into the cabin and to the harness. where it is soldered to the pins for the lo-beams and hi-beams. the 22 awg power wire also goes to the coil side of the low power reed relays, and then into the cabin and is soldered to the headlight relay pin of the harness. and thats it. the headlight switch grounds the coil of both reed relays to turn on light power. then it grounds the coil of either the high or lo beam relays to control brightness. its pretty simple once you understand it.

this should help

fits perfectly behind the fusebox

routed the wires from the passenger side light in front of the radiator

Boss fusebox with 2 30A fuses from ebay

relay trigger wires come trhough the rubber speedometer grommet

soldered right into the stock connector

speedometer grommet in engine compartment