1. don't change ur headgasket unless it is leaking...no need too...
2. let the pros do it...this is a very PITA procedure...ranks second only to timing belt change
3. ur power level will determine what clutch to recommend..if ur car is gonna be mainly stock...OEM clutch is best
4. camry wheels are not the proper offset...just use ur stock rims and get some cheap snow tires to mount them on if u really have to drive the mr2 in the winter time...get a winter beater if u can afford to..
5. stock boost guage is very crappy..any after market one will be more accurate and is a must if u plan on installing just one guage in ur car...a must do...
6. our car do not come with factory keyless entry remote...ur alarm should be able to control this function as long as u have power door locks..
7. "hose from hell" should be replaced...this is ur coolant bypass hose (i think that is what it is called)...
as for performance upgrades...if u think 200hp from factory will cure u need for speed then there isn't much to do...but if u desire a little more power....simple upgrades like intake....exhaust...some sort of boost controller and a fuel cut defender to raise boost should help make more power....anything after that will depend on ur bank account and will.....