ok.... anyone remember my "sways violently at 100+" post?? well I discovered most of the problem. I had replaced my front passenger strut cartridge around january... and everything was going good until I noticed this "swaying"... it had only gotten worse until I actually had time to check it out. turns out the ring-nut that holds the strut cartridge into it's housing on the steering knuckle had become loose... um... it came completly unscrewed

. and the strut cartridge was simply "floating" up and down. the car was supported only by the spring... a lowering spring at that. but I fixed it AGAIN.... and it still shimmys a bit, but I think I might have to replace the ball joints, and parts to the steering system... but for now, one more disaster was averted.