Finally I gotten confirmation from others who have tried this method!!!
http://www.clublexus.com/forums/show...=1#post3658583
and clubfoot you suck for trying to burst my bubble!! I didnt have any problems and still dont and neither does anyone else that has tried it. My task was not to fix bugs but it was to get the NAVI updated but keeping the OVERRIDE functionality. It works like i said with no problems. Don't hate me for trying to help hate me for HELPING....ha.
Naw I'm sorry that was childish but darn it i got it to work while no one else got it to! WITHOUT ANY EXTRA PARTS OR PHYSICAL MODDING... Like that dumb harness, no one wants to fool with wires or mess up there dash or trunk for a stupid navi, nor purchase anything extra and have to take time to install it risking the chance of messing something up...