In this case, the parts store is correct.
One flasher unit works both systems, but there are separate fuses for each. So if either works the flasher is good.
It's located above the fuse panel behind the drivers kick panel. Usually its a green, looks like a relay.
As for your problem, i'd suspect wiring, especially if you have added trailer light wiring.
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