okay, so luckily a cousin who happened to be a mechanic in the house was able to come over and help finish up. We couldn't get pictures as it was dark already and he was working with a flashlight but I do have the following pictures for you guys which will definitely give you a idea of where you need to grab and what you need to try and get off.
so, before I forget. We had to do some testing to see which wires we could use and they are one of the blue wires (positive ignition) and the white wire (ground).
this is how it looks from the sunroof opening.
this is where the front clips (windshield) goes. These were really hard to get off. You have to squeeze it a little while really pulling it hard straight down. Be careful that you have a good grip of the whole unit and not just the trim. We broke some clips on the sides but luckily it was a easy fix.
and here is the back of the unit. As you can see, there are four clips that are holding it up. I would say if you have a sunroof, go through that opening and get the back clips off first. But if you don't, get a good grip and do the fronts first.
hopefully this makes it easier for those trying to get it off.