Hi J.T., and welcome to Toyota Nation! I'll take a look and see if I can find that thread, but because of the subject matter and number of threads that exist in that forum I don't know if I'll be able to nail it down. But it's worth a try.....
Edit: Here's a recent thread from the Hilux forum about difficulty shifting. You can also find more by using that forum's search tool and using only the word "shift" as a search term. The forum's search feature isn't so hot, and keeping searches simple helps a lot. :thumsup: