I wouldn't do a special order just to get it without the locker. It doesn't hurt to have it, even if you never use it. You would most probably not want to use it for winter driving in the Northeast (icy roads, etc.), unless you like white-knuckling the wheel as you swap ends! Still, a manual locker (electric, cable, air) is better than an LSD or auto-locker in that case. It's open diff for the icy roads, then engage locker when you stuff it in the ditch or pull someone out, etc.
I doubt if it's another thing to go wrong. Either it engages or it doesn't. It would be good to engage once in awhile, but if you forget for a year or two, so what, you don't care if it works or not anyway. Plus, pretty easy fix if it does fail and you decide that you want to rely on it being functional.
My 2 cents...