Silver seems to be the most recommended Colour choice. Least issues. I’d swing for silver, I’m a fan. Colour tends do look good even when dirty.I've got a 21, hatch, cvt, 2.0, se in silver.
Haven't had the paint problems yet. There is road noise (seem to come from passengers rear wheel) but it isn't so you can't carry on a decent conversation at 70 mph. Hatch is 'child only' rear seat. I keep the rear seats folded down and really do enjoy the amount of carrying space. I have a few quibbles about the tech stuff, just position and ease of use.
Got to say at this point I would sure buy another one if for some reason I needed to change vehicles.