my inner rods were very tight. yours must have been changed before. i had to buy a 30mm crow's foot 'cause none of the tie rod removal tools i could find (autozone rents them) was the right size.
you could have bent the tangs with a hammer and a long chisel/screw driver/pry bar or a pair of water pump pliers. if you did not clean the threads very well the locktite is iffy, at best. sometimes it works - sometimes not - depending on what was on the threads, and how much of it.
i would have the toe set. you did not get it right - i'll guarantee that! and i would watch, very carefully, for the steering wheel's position when going straight to change. if it does one or both of those tie rods are backing out, and you need to re-do this. not what you wanted to hear, i know
not to worry - the steering will get ridiculous, to the point of crying tires, long before anything can actually let go.
you could have bent the tangs with a hammer and a long chisel/screw driver/pry bar or a pair of water pump pliers. if you did not clean the threads very well the locktite is iffy, at best. sometimes it works - sometimes not - depending on what was on the threads, and how much of it.
i would have the toe set. you did not get it right - i'll guarantee that! and i would watch, very carefully, for the steering wheel's position when going straight to change. if it does one or both of those tie rods are backing out, and you need to re-do this. not what you wanted to hear, i know
not to worry - the steering will get ridiculous, to the point of crying tires, long before anything can actually let go.