can anyone tell me where the headlight ground is, on the kick panel? ive been looking at repair manuals, and none show where it should be. also, what color is the wire? it says white and black, but there are quite a few. ive looked at almost everything, and nothing has solved my problem with my lights: i can jump the relay, and get the lights to work, but i cannot use the control stalk to turn them on or off. i have replaced the relay, the control stalk, and any fuses.