Ok this is where I am at now
After many after attempts I managed to get the timing belt on and lined up afte I rotated it twice. rotated 2 more time and it lined up again decided to go for 3 times is the charm rotated two more times and everything lined up again...happy dance.
reinstalled everything replaced the spark plugs
and it still wont start.
did a compression test on cylinders 1 & 3 and have 170psi on each then got rained out.
still have and oil leak, more than likely it is the oil pump oring that I had trouble getting to stay in place even with the grease method. I will repelace that if I can get it to start.
I will check for spark and the compression on cylinders 2 & 4 tomorrow evening after work weather permitting.
if any body has a suggestion what to check next please let me know