It can't be left alone, unless you're a suicidal gambler. The ATF leaking into the transfer case is a tickingtimebomb.
It must be dealt with now, if you don't want it seizing while you're driving. When it fails, it will lock up. You will have the front/rear wheels locking up, as you skid uncontrollably to a stop.
ATF does not have the EP additives or viscosity film thickness that a GL5 gearbox requires. ATF's AW additives and low viscosity will thin the gear oil out. Eventually, that lack of proper lubrication will cause the transfer case to fail.
Bandaid for temporary relief.... flush the ATF completely with a good ATF. Valvoline Maxlife, Lubegard, or Redline D4/D6 are a few to consider since one has extra seal conditioners and the others have a little more ester base oil which is also a good seal conditioner. And, add a bottle of Lucas trans fix to the current fluid NOW, add a measured dose to any ATF that you choose to use.
http://lucasoil.com/products/problem-solvers-utility/lucas-transmission-fix
http://www.valvoline.com/our-products/automatic-transmission-products/maxlife-dex-merc-atf
http://www.redlineoil.com/product.aspx?pid=115&pcid=9
http://www.redlineoil.com/product.aspx?pid=51&pcid=9
http://www.lubegard.com/~/C-1036/COMPLETE+Full+Synthetic+ATF
Since the transfer case calls for 85w90 or pretty much any 90 grade GL5 gear oil, and you have ATF diluting it constantly, simply change it out more often and use a 140 grade gear oil. If you use a 75w140, 80w140, or 85w140, you'll have the bandaid of viscosity to temporarily prevent catastrophic transfer case failure, until you can fix it. Change the gear oil IMMEDIATELY. I would change it 'quarterly' with Used Oil Analysis to determine how quickly it is being diluted. A UOA could give a little peace of mind and allow you to run the 140 grade gear oil for a longer interval. Once you collect a few transfer case gear oil UOAs, at 1 month of usage, and again at 3 months, you can determine the extent of the ATF leak gear oil dilution. A gallon of 140-grade gear oil at your local store is <$20 and good for at least 3 transfer case drain/refills.
Labor is the issue since if you can't DIY, you'll have to source the fluids and drain plug o-ring gaskets, pay the local shop for each drain/refill, transfer case sample collection, the ATF flush.... which can quickly add up to the $3k proper fix.