Ok, I tried what you suggested and this is what I found.
On the opposite side of the fuse block inside the instrument panel, I found three gray blocks. On them they say 30A, but they look nothing like the 30A pink fuse I bought. Are these fuses or relays or something different? It looks like this is what the owners manual is referring to for the power window fuse.
In the owners manual, these blocks correspond to 1) rear defogger 2) power windows, power locks, power moonroof 3) starting system (I think, not sure what this is). They are all labeled identially (30A). They are gray blocks about 1 inch square with four prongs on the back that plug into the back of the fuse box.
I decided to experiment by swapping the block for the rear defogger (which works) but this did not fix anything. So, I'm still kind of lost. If there is a pink fuse for the windows, I have not found it yet, but I will keep looking. Please post if there are any further suggestions.