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read this rant from
http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/~jenf/writing/rant04.html

This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl’s every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style.
 

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For a while, I thought I had figured everything out, but as I lived through more and more, things got more cloudy, but it wasn't like, confusing cloudy, just that things don't always go to plan.

A nice guy shouldn't change the way they want to be if they're happy with the way they are. I'm sure there are girls for them. i have no doubt of that.

Now, I have morals, I look down upon those assholes and idiots who do things to hurt others or are bad to where it's immoral. It's just wrong. I don't care if say a girl (even if i liked her) goes for him, because then I'd just look down upon her.

There is a girl out there for every guy. They should accept you, that's all that matters.
 

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grapefury said:
For a while, I thought I had figured everything out, but as I lived through more and more, things got more cloudy, but it wasn't like, confusing cloudy, just that things don't always go to plan.

A nice guy shouldn't change the way they want to be if they're happy with the way they are. I'm sure there are girls for them. i have no doubt of that.

Now, I have morals, I look down upon those assholes and idiots who do things to hurt others or are bad to where it's immoral. It's just wrong. I don't care if say a girl (even if i liked her) goes for him, because then I'd just look down upon her.

There is a girl out there for every guy. They should accept you, that's all that matters.
I agree:thumbup:

I'm not going to change myself to please some girl who's obviously not for me if she doesn't like the real me.(I think that made sense:lol: )
 

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nice guys don't finish last.

nice guys actually finish ahead.

push-overs and wimps finish last :rolleyes:

you gotta be a gentleman, with the key part in there being man


This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you’d ever orchestrated in GTA3 to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.
^ this is what girls do with friends who are just a shoulder to cry on....not those that they want to be with...and can you blame them for not wanting to be with somebody who'll put up with that kind of shit?:rolleyes:
 

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That article makes me laugh. Nice guys can be such winey little bitches! There's no need to write a freakin' speech professing to the world already well documented gripes of nice guys. This guy is obviously bitter and is merely sulking in self pity in an effort to convince himself and get support from others to lift his confidnece and tell him he's okay being single while his "bad" peers are getting laid. :lol: He's a hipocrite! There are tons of "nice girls" out there. Why isn't he stepping up to the plate with these ladies? I'm sure he wants that hot, fun, exciting, fashionable blonde "bitch" just like the girl wants the hottie "asshole". It's not nice guys that are dismissed, it's boring, unmotivated, awkward guys masked as nice guys that he's describing here. Discuss.
 
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If it's a dude, :thumbdown for whining.

If it's a chick, my first response. :p:
 
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Phi said:
It's not nice guys that are dismissed, it's boring, unmotivated, awkward guys masked as nice guys that he's describing here. Discuss.
Of all the points the author's talking about, I think part I quoted seems like it goes with what you're saying. Everything else is fine with me, I do some of them, but the ones where nice guys complain/bitch about not getting noticed, thats on them. They're not going for what they want, so why are they complaining when someone else takes them.

for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don’t end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.
If the nice guy were really a nice guy, he wouldn't care if he was overlooked or unappreciated. He'd be happy being the nice guy.

EKam said:
Hey "she" could be a transvestite looking for some man love.
:ugh3: :rofl:
 
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