I go about 75-80 or higher on highways the car sways slightly (as if) every breeze is swaying the car. ... a Cadillac SUV which is definitely a much bigger, heavier, and more powerful car... the alignment is the issue ... I don't know all that much not a super high mileage car, about 24.5k.
Not an alignment issue - a lead foot issue.
"car that passes me is swaying the car"
Where do you drive eighty miles an hour and find 'cars passing' you? Daytona, Indianapolis?
Buy the way, yes it is normal to notice when other vehicles pass you. Bigger vehicles will have a greater impact than smaller vehicles and, I suspect the shape of the passing vehicle might impact the force noticed in the vehicle(s) so passed. Its aerodynamics, physics and such.
Exceeding speed limits is disrespectful as well as dangerous. Continuing to do so after noticing a lack of control and or stability is even more so on both counts.
Also, while 15 MPH over a 65 MPH limit would appear to represent a 23% increase in speed and correlate to a similar reduction in the time to a given destination that is seldom the case. This excess rate of speed is seldom sustainable for the majority of a lengthy trip and would prove insignificant and superfluous for a short run (eg to the store).
I often note the anal orifice that passes on the right, surprising me in the process and cuts me off moving back to the left lane at speed. Almost invariably we will see him/her exiting shortly having gained as much as three quarters of a second over us. Or, pull up behind him at at the first or second traffic light off the freeway.
If you flip a little car like that at eighty, you'll never forget it as long as you live.