I'll try tackle this to the best of my ability, get nick to correct but i think this is how it works.
Don't forget your pistons, conn rods, crank, and its blow off valve, not pop off.., better clutch, gagues etc.
d00d, its not as easy as you think to set up a turbo setup. the problem is getting all the parts to work efficiently to create max boost with the least amount of work on the whole engine setup *including turbo*. If you want a simple way to turbo your engine, look for a turbo kit, otherwise lookout for rising costs as things WILL get pricey. if 6-7 lbs of boost is all your going for, try a t3 or t3/t4 hybrid turbo from garrett, or even take a turbo from a previously turboed car (ex. Supra, Rx-7 etc. and that would save plenty of money) Research is the key, as there are many different turbo manufactuers out there, from KKK, garrett, and turbonetics to name a few, and getting the right turbo, from the maker to exhaust housing and impellers, is essential for the system to work properly.
Now to answer your questions directly...
1 - Turbocharger (favorite; garrett)- First, find one that will fit in your engine bay.. sounds silly but think about it, if it doesn't fit then whats the point in trying it. secondly, try to calculate how much exhaust pressure there is, because dpending on the exhaust pressure, your impellers and exhaust housing will be very different in terms of efficency. (Theres a crap load more in selecting the right turbo but we can leave that for another thread)
2) intercooling (Spearco Air/air)- Now you wanna cool the air that goes into the intake, but try not to cool it too much as the pressure of the exiting air from the intercooler will be lower than what goes into the intercooler due to ?density? (if i can remember correctly) and you have 2 main ways you can go with intercooling, water => air cooling and air = air cooling.
3. blow-off valves and wastegates (HKS!) - ahh there are so many different types of each.. so many explanations... but look, you invest so much money into this turbo setup... get an excellent make of both... i say HKS , cuz if you have a crappy BOV heh, buh bye engine.
and ya, they would have to be welded into the plumbing depending on where the wastegate prefers to be (pre or post intercooler)
4. Custom oil PAn - okae, this is a little tricky.. as you probably know, that turbo needs to be lubricated with oil constantly. no oil pressure, and buh bye turbo. whoever told you to get a custom oil pan might not know the exact setup of where your turbo will be located in relation to your oil pan. The oil from the turbo has to be pumped from the oil pan into the oil inlet on the turbo and then drops from the oil outlet on the turbo back into the oilpan. What they mean by custom is, depending on how low your turbo sits compared to the oil pan, you gotta get it custom made, (dry sump or wet sump systems) just because the oil has to go back to the pan.
now i believe this sh** is right.. i studied a book on turbo setups and such but that was march break. So just don't rely on this piece of information alone and hopefully nick has some corrections to this.