I know they are not in the same class and really different. Somehow, I can not decide which one to go. We live in MN and are a family of five (with three pre-teen kids). We like Highlander but feel it is a little small for all of us. Sequoia has tons of space, better 4WD and can tow. However, MPG really sucks and it is, of course, more expensive. For people who have owned both, what is your suggestion?